Dive Into Sex with Water Play: Stay Hot While Keeping It Cool

When it comes to your next sexscapade, you might be wondering... how do you turn up the heat and cool things down? Two words: water sex.

Whether you're slipping into the shower or taking things poolside, here’s everything you need to know for safe, playful, and oh-so-refreshing water play.

Let’s dive in…

Tip #1: Choose the Right Lube

Water and water-based lube don’t mix.
As much as we love water-based formulas for everyday fun, they’re not made for water play — they’ll rinse right off!

Instead, reach for a silicone-based lubricant like Pure Pleasure. Silicone lube is water-resistant, ultra-slick, and long-lasting — meaning it stays where you need it, even underwater.

You could also opt for a hybrid lubricant, combining silicone and water-based properties. But if you want the best results in wet conditions? Stick with all-silicone.

Tip #2: Pick the Right Toy

Not all toys are created equal when it comes to water resistance.

Before bringing your fave vibe into the tub, double-check whether it’s:

• Shower-friendly (splash proof but not submersible)

• Bath-friendly (safe to be fully submerged in water up to 1 meter for 30 mins)

Check your product listing under the “features” tab for clarity. When in doubt don’t submerge it.

Tip #3: Pick the Right Spot

Let’s talk location. Not all water sex is created equal — here's what you should know:

🛀 Shower or Bath:
Slippery when sexy! Use a non-slip mat, grab bars for balance, and avoid bubbles, salts, or oils that can cause irritation or infection.

🔥 Hot Tub:
Fun, but tricky. Hot, chlorinated water can weaken condoms — so double check your protection. While hot tubs don’t prevent pregnancy (contrary to myth), the jets do make foreplay next level.

🏊♀️ Pool:
If it’s public, skip it. Not just for legal reasons — chlorine and bacteria are a risky mix. A private pool? Yes, please.

🌊 Ocean, Lakes & Rivers:
Nature’s sexy, but it can come with parasites and unknown bacteria. If you go au natural, stay in shallow, sheltered spots and avoid full submersion.

Tip #4: Explore, Experiment, Enjoy

What you love in bed might feel totally different in water. Explore new sensations and go with the flow — literally.

Need inspo? Try these two faves:

The Flamingo (Shower):
Face your partner standing, lift one leg to rest on the tub’s edge. They support your leg at the knee for leverage while you wrap your arms around them.

The Flirty Float (Pool):
Lay face-down on a floatie with your legs hanging off the edge. Your partner stands behind you in a wheelbarrow-style position — hello, buoyancy.

Want more? Check out our Summer Sex Positions guide for extra splashy fun.

Tip #5: Don’t Skip Aftercare

Yes, even if you just had sex in the shower — clean-up matters.

• Rinse intimate areas with clean water

• Pee after sex to flush out bacteria

• Wash any toys with Cleansing Mist

• Store them in a Toy Tote to prevent bacteria, mold, and other mood-killers

• Grab the discounted TLC Pack here

 

Water play adds a whole new dimension to intimacy  adventurous, sensual, and seriously hot. Just remember to stay safe, stay slick, and stay curious.

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