A Guide to Shared Pleasure

Introducing masturbation toys especially masturbators into your relationship can feel like a big step, but it doesn’t have to be awkward. In fact, exploring new ways to connect sexually can deepen intimacy, boost communication, and unlock next-level pleasure for both partners.

Whether you’re looking to spice up your sex life, enhance solo or partnered play, or simply normalize conversations around self-pleasure, here’s how to bring masturbators into the bedroom with confidence.

1. Start with Open, Honest Communication

All great intimacy begins with a conversation.

Rather than making assumptions, gently open up a dialogue in a relaxed, no-pressure setting. Here are a few ideas:

• “Would you ever want to try using toys together?”
• “I read that using a masturbator can boost pleasure and stamina—wanna try one sometime?”
• “I found this cool one online, and it got me curious…”

The key? Lead with curiosity, not critique. Make it a shared experience from the start.

2. Normalise Self-Pleasure

Self-pleasure is healthy, empowering, and normal and masturbators are simply tools to enhance that experience, not replace your partner.

Remind your partner that:

• Masturbators can help build stamina
• They enhance solo play and partnered play
• Using toys together can actually increase closeness and comfort

When presented as a way to support mutual pleasure, masturbators feel less like a taboo and more like a team upgrade.

3. Shop & Explore Together

Make it playful! Browsing toys together can be flirty, fun, and informative. We highly suggest making sure everyone is catered for — a toy for them, a toy for you, and one for both. Because shared pleasure is the best kind

Explore our Masturbators Collection and discover options like:

💦 Opening Act – A compact handheld stroker is ideal for solo or couples play 

🎮 Main Attraction  – A vibrating masturbator for mind-blowing solo sessions or serious couple foreplay

🔥 Double Feature – A couples ring for snug, pleasure-enhancing pressure that intensifies erection and sensation giving max stimulation to both 

😏 Butterfly Effect - A remote controlled spontaneous pleasure in public settings creates unforgettable intimacy.

Let your partner take the lead or choose together either way, it’s a fun bonding experience.

 4. Introduce It During Intimacy…Playfully

Once you’ve picked your toy, bring it into the bedroom with a light, teasing energy. You can:

• Start with foreplay or a sensual massage
• Gently guide your partner through using it
• Use it on them to create trust and excitement
• Pair it with oral or manual stimulation for double the fun

Pro Tip: Let your partner hold the remote or take control it turns play into connection.

5. Keep the Conversation Flowing

Every new addition to your bedroom toolkit is a chance to learn, grow, and explore together.

After trying a masturbator:

• Ask what felt good
• Share what you enjoyed
• Adjust for next time

This keeps things fresh and keeps communication open so your pleasure continues to evolve with your connection.

Ready to Explore Together?

Adding a masturbator to your relationship isn’t just about sex it’s about trust, exploration, and shared intimacy.

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